6 things to do in the last weeks of pregnancy

by Tsh.. She is the founder of this blog and is currently traveling around the world with her husband and 3 kids. Her latest book is Notes From a Blue Bike, and believes a passport is one of the world’s greatest textbooks.


My due date is in just a few days. Yep, I’m in that very last stage of pregnancy, when there’s not much you can do other than watch your body swell to unbelievable proportions and reminisce of the days when you could get up without grunting.

I’ve been busy getting ready for number three to join our family, and a big part of that is editing and scheduling guest posts from editors and contributors in the Simple Living Media family. Starting this Friday, Simple Mom will have a line-up of fabulous articles written by parents about everything from CSAs to adoption to (gasp!) having three kids.  It’ll be a great few weeks.

That means this is my last article for the next few weeks. I’m giving myself a maternity leave from writing, so that I can enjoy our new little one and grab some sleep whenever I can.

Lots of you are also pregnant right now, be it your fifth or your first. No matter, handling these last few weeks can be no picnic.  I know many of you can relate.

Here are my tips for making the most of the time before your newborn enters the world.

1. Smile and wave.

A common piece of advice given by everyone from your mother to a total stranger is, “Enjoy sleeping now because you won’t for a long time once the baby’s here.” Anyone who’s been pregnant in the past five years knows this is a moot suggestion because you haven’t been sleeping for at least six weeks.

Your body aches, heartburn is horrific, and you can’t seem to escape the heat. There’s no way to enjoy sleep if you’re not getting any anyway.

People also love commenting on how huge you are. “Are you sure you’re not due today?” — I hear that from strangers at least daily. I’m 5’2, plus I’m short-waisted — I go nowhere but out when I’m pregnant.

It’s beyond me why people find it appropriate to say things like this, but they do, and they usually mean well. All the belly rubs, the unsolicited advice, and the well wishes are almost always said with good intentions.

Just smile and wave… move on. Don’t get worked up by innocent-yet-naive comments, and don’t say anything you’ll regret.

2. Go ahead and nest…

A common sign of nearing labor is nesting — something in women clicks, where they just have to clean out the fridge or organize the garage right before the baby arrives.

With my first, my husband woke up at 4 a.m. to find me overhauling the front entry closet. I couldn’t sleep, and something in me was propelled to organize that thing.

Enjoy the last few weeks before the nonstop nursing and endless diaper changes. Take time to sew, organize, or paint walls, especially if it’ll make you feel better.

3. …But don’t stress — you don’t need much for the first few weeks.

Photo by Steve Evans

One look at a major chain’s registry suggestion, and you’d think you would need a part-time job to balance the budget with a new baby. You really, truly, honestly don’t need that much for the first few months.

Enjoy nesting and preparing for your baby, but don’t add needless stress by buying into the hype that you need a bunch of stuff. Just prepare for the beginning, and you’ll soon learn what your baby truly needs.

In fact, all you really need to have on hand is:

• your hospital bag or labor kit
• some place for your baby to sleep
• a car seat, so that you’re legally allowed to leave with your baby
• diapers
• basic clothing
• burp cloths
• a pacifier, in case of desperation

You might also add little gifts for older siblings, or perhaps a new “big brother or sister” t-shirt for the big birth day.

4. Give yourself a reality check.

Photo by Cia de Foto

Even if you’re a pro at caring for a newborn, it’s easy to forget those early weeks and months. I just skimmed through a baby care book, and was reminded of so many things I’ve forgotten from my first two.

Admitting the reality heading your way will help lesson the blow… a little. Remember?

• Sometimes you’ll nurse every two hours for a baby that takes an hour each feeding. You do the math of what your day will be like.

• Newborn poop goes everywhere.

• Breastfeeding hurts, even when you’ve done it many times.

• It’ll hurt to cough, sneeze, or laugh for quite a while.

It’s still worth it, of course, and there are so many great things about the early stages (they sleep anywhere, they require only the basic care, and they’re so darn cute when they’re that tiny). But it’s good to give yourself a refresher course on Newborns 101.

5. Take care of yourself.

You’re not feeling at your best right now, so do a little something to perk you up. Go get a great haircut. Enjoy a pedicure. Buy a cute nursing nightgown for those first few days. Get some fresh air with a daily walk. Check out a good book at the library.  Drink lots of water.

6. Go on dates.

Photo by Zenobia Joy

On my firstborn’s due date, I asked my doctor if there was anything I could do to help speed things along. His advice? “Go on a date.”

I was so annoyed at his less-than-therapeutic suggestion, but we went out to dinner and a movie anyway, and a week later she was born. Then I really understood what he meant.

As miserable as those last days of pregnancy can be, they won’t last much longer. Get a babysitter for your older kids and go out with your spouse. Enjoy the time before the crazy newborn phase.


by TshTsh is the founder of this blog and is currently traveling around the world with her husband and 3 kids. Her latest book is Notes From a Blue Bike, and believes a passport is one of the world’s greatest textbooks.
Click here to enter our Facebook sweepstakes…{Click here for a free information packet and special coupon for MAZE Cord Blood Laboratories! }